Season 3, Episode 4: "Every Man for Himself"
The title of this episode was EVERY MAN FOR HIMSELF. This is what Sawyer tells Kate when she tries to escape and he refused to go with her. She then comes back with "Live Together Die Alone," which has been quoted several times by her and Jack, and was also the title of the season 2 finale. Sawyer is trying to say that he doesn't care and they should only look out for themselves, but Kate shows him by getting back into the cage that she does care about him, and that they are in this together.
NOT WHAT THEY SEEM TO BE:
One thing I have noticed so far in this season, is that in each episode we have learned that these characters aren't at all what we thought they were. Last season devoted so much to Good vs. Evil....the idea of who is "good" and showing that the Others only wanted "the good ones." Now we are learning, deep down, who is really good and who is not.
The first three episodes we have seen people who we thought were so good, turns out they are not so perfect after all. First we learn that Jack, who comes across as this noble doctor, the "hero" who everyone looks up to, is in fact obsessive-compulsive. Secondly, we learned that Sun is actually very conniving. She has been lying all her life, to her father, her husband, she learned English without her husband knowing, committed adultery, and now murder. Sun is not at all the innocent little housewife that we thought she was. Then last week we learn that Locke, who we've thought of as this wise, all-knowing man, was involved in a pot-growing scheme. Not at all what we would think of him. Just goes to show that these people are very different than what we think they are. So here are three people who we've thought of as GOOD, but we find out that they have flaws too...and they are not necessarily as good as we thought.
In this episode we see the opposite...Sawyer -- who we typically thought was so evil -- is actually "good" inside. He truly cares about Kate, he doesn't want her to get hurt. The OTHERS knew this and used it against him. They made up the story about the pacemaker to keep him quiet and so he wouldn't try to escape. He believed them and this is why he was so against Kate's escape plan, because he didn't want them to hurt her. Ben made a comment that he tries so hard to make it seem like he doesn't care about her, but they know that he does. This was also similar to his feelings with Cassidy, the woman he conned who ultimately put him in jail. Although he makes it seem like he doesn't care that he has a daughter, we find out that he really does, when he anonymously gives the money to her. Once again, Sawyer conned someone (the other prisoner) although he was working WITH the warden to bust the new guy in exchange for his own freedom. When he is given his share of the money for his help, he has the warden put it all in an account in Albuquerque for his daughter, though he wants it to be anonymous. We discover that Sawyer truly does care, but for some reason he doesn't want her to know. Just like Ben said, he tries so hard to play this evil, conman, but deep down he really is a good person and has good intentions. Just another example of how each person appears a certain way on the outside, but in fact is just the opposite.
OF MICE AND MEN:
Along with that same subject, we would not think that Sawyer is so well-read. In fact we have seen him reading quite a lot on the island. Funny that he and Ben both quote the same book, Of Mice and Men, which we saw Sawyer reading while he was in prison. We also know that Ben used to be part of a book club.
This classic novel, by John Steinbeck, is essentially about the nature of human existence and in dealing with the sense of loneliness and isolation. In fact, at the end of this episode, Ben quotes "A guy needs somebody to be near him. A guy goes nuts if he ain't got nobody. Don't make no difference who the guy is, long as he's with you. A guy gets too lonely and he gets SICK." Notice the usage of the word "sick" at the end of this quote. Is this the "sickness" that Danielle has been speaking of? She has been living alone for 16 years, maybe the idea of isolation and loneliess is what causes people to get "sick." This is also similar to Desmond in the hatch. This could be some kind of psychological experiment that the Others are performing, testing man's ability to live in isolation, and seeing if "he goes nuts if he ain't got nobody."
As we also see in this novel, Lennie, who is mentally retarded, has a physical strength that is like no other. He ends up killing both people and animals by accident, though he never meant to do it. His child-like heart was in the right place, but he commits murder unwittingly. Just like alot of the survivors. Deep down they are good people, but sometimes they do bad things.
Another thought, the very title "Of Mice and Men" deals with two very different groups, the all-powerful MEN vs. the trapped, experimental MICE. This is very similar to the Others and those they have captured. The Others (Men) are performing psychological and experimental testing on Sawyer, Kate and Jack (mice). They also showed that they do lab experiments on animals (rabbits) as we have also seen with the bears and the sharks. In this situation, they are treating their captors as lab mice (keeping them in cages, performing experiments on them).
COMS ARE DOWN
We hear Tom/Zeke telling Ben that "in the two days since the sky turned purple we've been blind, our coms are all down, and I can't get them back up again." Apparently they are not as certain about what happened as they would appear to be. It seems they don't know fully what happened when the hatch imploded (the sky turned purple) and that they are unable to figure out why their intercoms are no longer working. Interesting because the intercoms in Jack's cell suddenly ARE working. Juliet previously told him that they haven't worked in a long time, after he appeared to be hallucinating and hearing voices over the intercom. Now he is clearly hearing Sawyer being tortured. Also, later on he hears voices talking and tries to make out what they are saying..."It's under conrol...do you know what he's doing? It was a mistake bringing them here..."
WHO AM I HERE TO SAVE?
After the woman dies on the operating table, Juliet tells him that she is "not used to death," that she is a fertility doctor. He tells her she was dead before they even put her on the table, and Juliet asks if he's just saying that to make her feel better. He responds that he doesn't care how she feels. Jack then responds that he saw the X-rays on the wall and that there is a man with a very large tumor. He realizes at that point he was brought there for a reason. Now we finally know why they wanted Jack. Not because he is one of the "good ones" as they seemed to emphasize by whose names were on "the list," but because he is a spinal surgeon and they know that he has a need to "fix" things. They want Jack for his medical expertise. The question is, WHO has the tumor? Ben told Jack earlier that he wants him to do something, in exchange for his freedom. He said he could go home if he does this thing for them. Is this what they wanted from him all along? Now it's going to be a matter of whether Jack is willing to help them or not. He has already emphasized to Juliet that he really does not care about them or how they feel. I think that the reason they brought Sawyer and Kate was strategically for blackmail. They know that Jack cares for Kate and they could use her as a hostage if he does not agree to perform the surgery. We have already seen last season that when confronted in the woods, Jack had an opportunity to shoot them but put his gun down when they came out with Kate as a hostage. So this would give us reasons for why they wanted Jack, and possibly Kate. But what about Sawyer? We still don't know WHY they took him as well. Ben tells him that "danny" wants him dead. (Danny is the husband of the woman who Sun shot). But Ben says "Danny will have to wait. He is still needed."
I also think it's interesting that Juliet is a "fertility" doctor what with all the experiments they do and their kidnapping of children. Obviously there is something about children and babies that they want. A fertility doctor is someone who is needed when someone can't have children. What could she possibly be doing on the island? Also we know that Ben has been on the island his entire life. What about Juliet? If she was also on the island her whole life, she can't possibly be a "real" and accredited doctor. Where did she learn to be a doctor? I noticed that while they seem to have a full operating room and modern amenities (XRays, etc.), yet they don't seem to know much about actual surgery (she said she had never done this before.) Also the chest pumps "were not working." Is this because of the hatch implosion? Maybe the electromagnetic force being down somehow caused those not to work and therefore were unable to save the woman they were operating on.
DESMOND'S PSYCHIC POWERS
So now we have seen twice that Desmond does in fact have some kind of psychic ability. Last week he predicted Locke's speech before he made it, and now we see that he knew about the lightning storm before it happened. He knew that lightning was going to strike and hit the roof of the tent where Claire and Aaron were, so he made a lightning rod to defer it and help save her and her baby's life. I still think that something with the electromagnetic force and the implosion of the hatch somehow transferred this psychic power to him when he was thrown from the hatch. I also think something similar happened with the other "incident" that the Dharma videos talk about, which is why they want the people who have these "special" powers (such as Walt). So far we have seen that Locke, Eko and Desmond, all who were in the hatch at the time of implosion, have now come out with the ability to have these "visions."
NOWHERE TO RUN
At the end of this episode, Ben shows Sawyer that there are two islands. One island where their plane crashed and where the survivors are living, and the other island which they are now on. He tells Sawyer not to bother trying to escape because there is nowhere to run. Interesting that Ben refers to it like Alcatrez, using that against Sawyer since he knows he was formerly in prison. It appears that the Others have camps on both islands, as we saw that when the plane crashed they were able to run to the site of the plane crash from their "village" - but their medical station and the cages where they keep their captors are on this different island. Remember when we first saw Kate, Jack and Sawyer captured they were on a dock (Pala Ferry). They get back and forth by submarine. This is confirmed at the beginning of the episode when Ben interrupts Juliet while talking to Jack in his cell and tells her that "the sub is back." Also the wires that Sayid found going into the ocean could have something to do with their submarine. Maybe the sub is attached to their underwater station (where they were keeping Jack).
THE EYE PATCH
In the scenes for next week, we see a man with an eyepatch peering into the video monitor in one of the hatch stations. Could this be the same guy who had the glass eye? Remember when Eko found the box in the hatch, it had a bible...and a glass eye!

PS - If you are reading this, please post on the "Comments" link below and just let me know you are here! I am REALLY curious to know who reads this. Otherwise I feel like I am just wasting my time, because it takes a very long time to compile everything, go back to my Tivo, look up stuff online, etc. - so I would atleast like to know that I am doing this all for a purpose and that people out there are actually reading it! I forward it to a few friends, but from what I hear this is forwarded to a bunch of other people as well (and according to my mother-in-law, the whole town of Syracuse). So I'm just really curious to know who reads this. Because apparently people that I don't even know are wondering if I am okay if I don't post by noon the next day!!! :)

48 Comments:
I read your blog weekly and know several other "Nesties" that read it too.
Hi Stacey,
Thank you so much for writing this. I am a Lost fanatic and you see things that I miss, please don't stop your blog! I actually forward it to my Husband and another co-worker and look forward to reading your insight every Thursday morning!
Jennifer05
I'm a husband of a Nestie and I've been coming here since the beginning. Great job! Thank you for all the time you put into this each week.
I'm a nestie, and someone posted a link to your blog on my board (the DC board). I've been reading your blog only since this season (3) but I love it. You have some great insight. (Nestie kimberlee1031)
Hi, I have been reading your blog since last season. It is awesome. It try to catch things too, but when I read your blog, there is so many things that I miss. There are several people that read youR blog on a weekly basis. Keep up the good work. WE LOVE IT !!!!!!!!!!!
Stacey,
Thank you so much for doing this, it is awesome!!! I forward this to my freinds every week and believe me if I forget they remind me.
Definitely being read and passed on! Thanks for taking the time to do this.
Kristin
Houston Nestie here. I've been reading your blog since last season. Thanks for your work! :)
Ladybug1104
another Houston Nestie - I alway read your blog b/c I miss so much. It amazes me how insightful you are and how much you get from each episode (that I don't).
You're read in Baltimore. Greetings from a fellow Nestie here. I've passed it along to my childhood friends in NY and they send it around and every Wed. we e-mail each other after reading your posts. Thanks for doing this and please keep on doing it!
Hey Stacey, its nanann. I also religiously ready your blog, and was actually upset this morning b/c I couldn't find the address. thank goodness you posted it on the board again!
:)
good work! (and I can't believe how many people are reading it from all over too!)
Hi there! Another Houston Nestie here. My husband and I watch Lost together every week and can't wait to read your blog the next day to see your thoughts and find out what we missed. Please keep it up!!!
I dont think you quite comprehend, you are GENIUS at these episode recaps. I mean you find minute details, even the professionals cant detect. I am david brandon's friend in NYC and I live and die by your recaps. Good on you for being so intuitive, and yes, I look frantically if you dont post by noon.
NorCal nestie here... referred by another nestie but I forget who now... but definitely reading every week to catch up on all the details I invariably miss...
Stacey,
I love your blog! I was sent the URL from a friend who is also insane about Lost. You have great questions and theories and I look forward to reading it every week.
Thanks!!
Not sure if my wife has already posted, but once again...another husband of a Nestie here. The blog is great. By reading each week I catch on to so many details that would otherwise go unnoticed. Keep up the good work!
Houston, TX
You're read in Miami! I heard about the site from my sister in Dallas, and I've forwarded it on to all my personal LOST fans. Your re-cap is great! Thank you and keep it up!!!
I too love your blog, but I 'm your husband, so I guess I'm biased. Like many of you, if Stacey doesn't post her blog by noon, I call asking where it is.
For all of the blog readers, apparently from around the country, I thought I might provide a little insight into the origin of Stacey's LOST blog. When Lost premiered, Stacey and I were immediately hooked and spent hours discussing different theories about the show. Those "discussions" spilled over to emails at work and soon our emails included more and more friends and co-workers. Thus, I suggested Stacey start a blog to easily involve others and presto... the LOST Blog was born.
The great thing about LOST is that everyone catches different hidden messages in the show and everyone has a different theory. It may be hard for many of you to believe, but a few (very few) of Stacey's theories originated with me. Thus, it would be great to read theories, thoughts, etc... from ALL of you out there...so feel free to share. I will get it started...
To me, the literary and religious references in the show are very insightful. Stacey's thoughts regarding OF MICE OF MEN are right on. Benjamin/Henry Gale's quote "A guy needs somebody to be near him. A guy goes nuts if he ain't got nobody" says alot the about the show and the main character's past struggles. Doesn't it seem they are often getting into trouble (or going nuts) because they are alone or because they fear being alone?
One last thing, Jack's statement to Juliet is very meaningful. When asked if he told her the girl was already dead to make her feel better, he states I don't care how she feels. Jack is about Jack, and cares little about how others feel....that is until it affects how it makes him feel.
yes i read it in texas and i think you do a pretty good job putting it all together. keep it up
Hey Stacey,
It's Mags, you know I read it!
My first time here. Very interesting. I will be anxious to come back next week.
I read it in Alabama, but I like the pics better, especially the skulls and bones one, now thats funny. Some of the big words you use are tough to understand, but I jus go to the web an look them up. It takes a while but I manage. Keep up the good work!
I check this religiously every Thursday. Your insights are wonderful! Keep up the good work. This link has been posted on a wedding website, TheKnot.com, so I know there are more than a few brides here in Houston who check this every week!!!
First time reader...very interesting. Great Job!
I read your postings religiously and look forward to them. I also cut and paste it to send to 12 of my coworkers for their reading pleasure.
You rock! Thanks!
I read this religiously every week...(Michigan)...thank you!!
Was referred by a nestie and read it every week - have passed it along to friends as well.
Read every week and pass along to friends as well..
You're being read in Atlanta and have also sent to people in Pensacola. The reviews are awesome. Thanks for writing!
Loyal reader from Atlanta, GA. I make a point of reading your blog every week after watching the show to see what you've picked up on that I missed. I think Ben is the one with the tumor and that Sawyer is needed for Ben's surgery to provide bone marrow, blood, or something else needed in the surgery. For all we know, they may even be related.
Hi stacy,
Thanks for writing every week. I always check to see if I "got" everything. Usually I've missed some implication.
Met you at CJ's wedding. We are friends of your in-laws.
Shelley U from Rochester
Atlanta is reading!! Keep it up!
Hi Stacey! It's me....another reader in Alabama. My husband left you a wacky message! We love your blog and I have passed it on to several of my co-workers. We first discuss our thoughts and then all wait for your blog! Love it! Hope to see you and Gregg soon. Lots of love,
Lori
Hi Stacey! My name is Ann. I live in Frisco, Texas (Dallas area) and LOVE your blog. A friend referred me to your blog. Your insights are wonderful! Don't stop!! I forward it on to my husband and friends and we all LOVE it!Thanks for your time! Ann
I tivo LOST every week and read the blog after I watch each episode. It's amazing. For some reason, I think the two snowmen (what did one snowman say to the other snowman) are the two russian guys that we saw in an episode at the end of last season. But that's just a guess.
I read the blog every week - as does every family member of mine obsessed with the show.
Keep it up!!!
I live in Orange County CA. I read this every week...very insightful! Please keep it up.
Houston Nestie...I caught up on so much from Season 2 and love to keep reading.
dana92504....i'm here!!! don't quit!! :-).....btw, can you refresh my memory on the mentally handicapped guy that killed some people? i don't remember that at ALL!!
Yes We are here!! I love reading it :)
and I also don't remember the mentally handicapped guy! :)
Dana and Mirielle - that was a reference to the book "Of Mice and Men" - in the book, Lennie, who is mentally handicapped, ends up killing other people not out of evil, but because he was good inside and he just couldn't "control" his good intentions. I was using him as a comparison to the show and good vs. evil, since they had used "Of Mice and Men" in that episode.
I'm a nestie, and I've forwarded on to people that I work with.
me and my Venice, CA LOSTnuts love your blog. look forward to it every week.
You are my weekly habit now. Great work and great reads. thanks!
Great blog! It was forwarded to me from a Houston Nestie, and I have forwarded it on to several others that I know read it too.
I'm an Atlanta nestie and I read this every week! Love it! We all can't wait for your thoughts each week.
I'm another nestie. I love this blod. I read this to see whats going on with Lost. I haven't seen it in 2 weeks. I pass this link on to others. I think you catch on to things that I'm just like OMG!!!
Keep them coming.
My husband and I both look forward to reading your blogs after every episode. When we're confused about something, he says 'just look it up on the blog tomorrow'. Keep up the great work.
PS - We're in Atlanta.
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